These earrings are definitely not for everyday/regular wear. I was surprised how limp the upper gold area. Overall the earring has a bottom heavy design, which feels like a regular ear hole will be pulled after 30 min on the ear. The upper gold post area is not sturdy enough to hold the weight of the pearl and it felt like my hole was going to stretch an abnormal amount if worn regularly. Tried to make it a couple hours test driving the earrings and I couldn't bear it.